The danger of believing the simple straplines our mind creates.
Once you find your simple straplines, see how they determine your understanding, predictions, and choices. Look to see…
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We look at the world through patterns and templates in an attempt to understand our complex environment: This leads to that; This means that; This looks like that.
Why you ought to keep an eye on those close to you
When starlings are in a murmur, they look only at the seven birds within their immediate range of sight. By doing so they create their seemingly magical flowing shapes with ease. In the tiniest of moments, a message is hurtled throughout the whole flock and together the whole is created.
Making amends for unconscious bias, representing the world I want to see
When I went to our local soccer team to register my son’s interest, it dawned on me that unconsciously I had not done the same for my two older girls. This was a pretty shocking realisation.
How do you self sabotage to appease your fear?
When fear becomes the loudest guest in our heads, it can work against us in the most destructive ways. The solution we chose to appease our internal fears varies.
How focused on agility are you? It will save you from toxic busyness.
Top tips and questions for you to move in chaos
How to create psychological safety for yourself
If we cannot create self-safety for ourselves, we get triggered when our environment doesn't fit our needs. With an ever-changing environment, this makes for a lot of triggering!
The most fascinating technique to help get us out of self-critic
I created these last week.
My teacher, artist Susie Raz has the most fascinating technique to help get us 'out of self-critic. She set up a bouquet and asked us to paint them twice, at the same time; yup at the same time!
What is ChatGPT going to do to human-to-human trust?
How can we trust what people are saying is really from their voice? How can we trust that the things we read are sent with as much thought as we did before? What human-centered corners are likely to be cut in the increased efficiency we gain from AI?
Watch out world, the best of you is yet to come!
I've been wearing a lot of sequins recently.
I think it is my age and I'm OK with that.
I feel I'm getting braver in the 'right' places as I get older.
Being a good leader is being good at leading courage
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I could go on, but really, that's it.
The most successful people know how to manage their fear
It is not lack of skills that stops people, it's fear
The two sides of psychological safety - Do not make this common mistake
Psychological safety is the known essential ingredient in any high-performing team we know.
Struggling with hot brain? Cool instantly with an 'Alcohol Wipe Mantra'
When you identify a regular trigger for a hot brain, create your own alcohol wipe mantra.
How much are you sacrificing by managing other people's impressions of you?
Tips to manage your impression
Finding the silverlinings of regret
Beating yourself up about thing you can’t control is unproductive regret
Whooah there's a lot of stress about...
The key to managing stress is in recognising when you are stressed, understanding your stress triggers and allowing yourself space to respond to the stress.
Thanks fear, I’ll take it from here
When we recognise that we are not our fears, we can take the best of fear and move forward.
Worried about returning to the office? I get it.
As we return to work, our happiness, success, and high performance relies on our ability to manage our fears and those of our colleagues, too.